Relationship; Complicated aspect of humanity

 

By crystal pen

   Relationship might seem to be too complicated for humanity when party A does not respect or see the importance of engaging with party B .I could remember vividly of a friend of mine who was courted with a guy for three years, hoping that the courtship would work out. She was too concentrated and focused more about her life, time and even future based on the affairs that existed between them. Just a week to their sign out in school, the guy broke up with the lady just with flimsy excuses, having committed several abortions for him, Tiwa, my friend expected more from the so called serious relationship which eventually turned out to a be mess and disappointment for her. 

     Like every other adults out there, this is an example of the affairs among you that popularly and basically termed relationship. Yes it was a relationship that existed between Tiwa and her Ex-boyfriend. But does that mean that there is no relationship without dating or courtship? Definitely NO.       Relationship could be regarded as the way in which two or more people or things are connected.

     Categorically, you regarding the man and woman that gave birth to you as your parents, it is a result of the relationship that is existing between you. Relationship is a connection between two or more individuals either by blood, friendship or marriage. Relationship exists in nearly every human endeavors, in as much as there is interaction or connection between two or more parties. In fact, this is not excluding an organization. The kind of relationship or interaction with an organization determines if it would be regarded as an organic or mechanistic organization. 

   The complexity and unpredictability of human being requires one to be careful in the kind of relationship you found yourself with them. In fact, don't expect too much from people you are either directly or  indirectly connected with,  else, they can  disappoint you, all one needs to survive in this mysterious world is to think more of yourself than others that you call your close pals or family. However, this does not mean one should totally distance himself from people they can in turn help, when one is stocked, yes that is life.

  That reminds me about how a sister after rounding up her NYSC was promised by her uncle to get her a mouth watering job at a petroleum company then. Unfortunately, she  got turn down by the mere promise made by the uncle in the name of am too busy. She relied on the uncle for help and was disappointed, the most disheartening part was that she declined alot of offers just because of the pseudo job her uncle promised her. If not for God that came to her rescue she almost committed suicide due to the depression her uncle posed at her (by not fulfilling his promise).

   Don't expect too much from the course of being connected or interacting with anyone in whatsoever relationship you keep. You either gain or loose from it.

    As a student don't expect too much from your friends especially during exam time because it can lead to your waterloo, stand on your own by preparing well. Depending too much on a lover nowadays can pose you to “breakfast”, it now a national cake. Nevertheless, just make sure you play your part well in whatever relationship, so as not to be the defaulter.